Talking a partner through orgasm.

There have been some recent discussions about talking someone through their orgasm, but what does that really mean?

Talking a partner through their ‘nut’ or orgasm can include things like dirty talk, sexual affirmations, sexual praise and compliments, sensual wordplay, and sexual demands or statements. One may discover that they even have a “praise kink” in the midst of this sexy banter.

There are a few things to think of beforehand such as 'what would turn you on and what would turn your partner on,’ and ‘what wording do they like? “slut”, “sexy bitch”, “beautiful”, "kinky mfer", "cock", "dick", "pussy", "cunt.’ - you want to make sure you have a clear understanding of which words are to be used so you do not offend your partner, Sexting can help with this dialog. You can learn which language your partner enjoys and how they like to be talked to.

Along with answering those questions, it is important to establish boundaries- you don't want to make things awkward or disrespectful (unless that's what is desired). You will also want to know if it will just be one of you doing the sexy talking or if you are going to go back and forth with it.

A few tips:

• Don’t overthink it. Have fun with it.

• Confidence is key.

• Reading erotica can help you learn how to put sexy wording together.

• Words can be so sexy but don't forget about noises.

• Sexting and open communication can help you learn the wording that excites you and your partner(s).

Below is a list of examples: